Ruth Fletcher to Andrew Craig Fletcher, 1864 August 19
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Yours of the 14th came to hand a few moments ago & I hasten to answer it you
wrote you thought of going to the war what would it profit you to gain the whole
world and lose your life I am sure money is of but little value when ones life
is the forfeit if you are bent on going we cannot hinder you as formerly for you
are
of age but you must weigh the matter candidly & think how
Father & Mother & the
children felt when you enlisted before & how they
will feel now we even never give our consent for what would money be to the life of my boy I want
you to think of how much trouble your poor Mother has had of late & is still
having & do not add any too it for it seems as tho I could not bear much
more I shall expect an early answer for it does
not seem as tho I
could wait to hear from you for it was unexpected to me that you could be hired
to enlist you are far away where I cannot talk to you but hope you will get this
before you act in the matter your Cousin Laura An is dead she died 2 weeks ago
last Tuesday Your Father has got a lame back he has not got all of his hay &
oats cut yet Ella is about the same not much better we sold our butter about two weeks ago for forty cts
I was sorry you got that sponge to pay so high for it one quarter of it was
all I needed and I did not expect it would be but a few cents however I must
make the best of it can they are all gone to bed but me & I must close and
go & lay & think of my absent boy
Do write as soon as you get this & relieve your Mothers great anxiety
From your afflicted MotherRuth Fletcher
Edson & his wife & 2 sisters are up we expect them here next week