California, Here I Go Since the bigoted “Defense of Marriage” act passed here in California, I have a question. What does it take for all of us gays and lesbians from here to do . become citizens of Vermont? We could stay here andrmake money and pay taxes in a state that seems to think we have a few legal rights. Just a thought. Tom Pease Beverly Hills, CA The New Apartheid Editor: . l’ve already spoken out sev- eral times on the issue of same- gender marriage, so I’m not about to applaud the state House of Representatives for their vote to approve the so- called “civil union” bill. By declaring that marriage is for opposite-gender couples only, the Legislature is estab- lishing a dual system of marital partnership. Such a system constitutes a new form of state- imposed segregation — in this case, based on gender — that is every bit as unconstitutional under the 14th Amendment as the racist Jim Crow laws of the Old South. There is no way that this system can stand up in federal court if -it is challenged on those grounds. I’m no fan of marriage by any means. However, as a man of mixed African American and Native American descent who’s old enough to remember the dark days of Jim Crow, I have absolutely zero tolerance for state-imposed ' segregation. Therefore, I can- not, in good conscience, allow this new form of apartheid to go unchallenged. There can be only one.single system of marital partnership that will pass constitutional muster. That single system — regardless of whether you call it marriage or civil union — must treat same-gender~ and opposite-gender couples equal- ly. Skeeter Sanders Essex, VT Open Letter to Schiavone I am sorry to say that you have let me down deeply. Last year, you told me . emphatically that your legisla- tion and your personal feelings were ONLY about protecting the traditional definition of marriage. That you were, in . fact, in favor of granting les- bians and gay men the rights ‘and responsi-'b.ilities of state recognized relationships — as 8 Out in the Mountains April 2000 Elm, I'll Box 1078, lllcluunnil, ill 05477-1078 or EiiIlur@ninuniainpr-Iiiemeilla.oi-u out in the Mountains welcomes your letters. Although we will withhold names from printing upon request, the letter must be accompanied by a verifiable name and address in order to be considered for publication. We reserve the right to edit for spade and clarity. Letters are also subject to the editorial policy stated in the masthead. long as it wasn’t called mar- riage. This is what you said. You claimed that you ,were not against lesbians and gay men, that you were not homo- phobic, that ALL you wanted was to protect heterosexual marriage. And now, even with one amendment that defined mar- riage as a thing which involved a man and a woman, you still voted against the civil union legislation. I’m sorry, but I don’t believe in your support and affirrnation of lesbian and gay families. I believe your thinly cloud- ed pleasantries, in the end, don’t hide your true nature —— which is opposed to the civil rights for lesbians and gay men. In this bill you had the opportunity to demonstrate your courage to grant rights and responsibilities to lesbians and gay men, while still pro- tecting the traditional defini- tion of marriage. Hiding behind desire to give these rights to other household configurations just doesn’t cut it. What you are really afraid of is expanding our state’s defini-. tion of what it takes to make a. family. Love makes a family, George, and it sure would be nice if you could open your heart a wee bit more to support state recognition in support of loving, committed relation- ships. I am angry because you say one thing and do another. You are very slick, in all of your doublespeak — I just wish you would have the courage to stand up and say either lesbians and gay men should NOT have rights and responsibilities as a couple recognized by the State of Vermont — or that they should — and instead of fight- ing so hard AGAINST civil rights — fight for the civil rights you think ought to be extended to our lesbian and gay Vermonters. You say you support such rights, but I’ve not seen anything to show that support. I’d say if (however well intentioned) it looks like big- otry, quacks like bigotry, swims like bigotry, then by golly it must be bigotry. Jan Passion St. George, VT Love, Understanding, and H.847 Editor: I hope and pray all Vermonters can agree that full civil rights should be available to all citizens. Around this issue, many have claimed to know. what God wants, throwing out Biblical passages in support of their claims just as supporters of slavery and segregation did, not so long ago. Bibles were waved against women’s right to free speech, to speaking in public at all, to their right to vote. Biblical quotes are still used against women’s equality, against Jews, against interra- cial and interreligious mar- riage, and against countless other groups and actions. All have been with the same claim, that the Bible quoters know what God wants. I am amazed at such certain- ty about divine purpose, espe- cially when it centers on cruel misinformation and demands to restrict the rights of others. The divine principle which our religious movement sup- ports, the one we believe all of the great Hebrew prophets endorsed, including Jesus of Nazareth, and all the great world religions support, in their finer moments, is the principle of love and under- standing. We mean by this not simply tolerance of diversity but active support for any situ- ation in which the spirit of love can be enriched. A committed relationship, with or without children, gay or straight, is cer- tainly one such situation we _ believe we ought to support. I hope. and pray that all Vermonters can agree that civil support for all families should be available to all Vermont cit- izens. I Regardless of how you may think your legislators -have decided, and even if you have already talked with them, please letthem know how you feel, today. They need to hear the message of love and com- passion as often as possible to help them to counteract the sad and frightening voice of igno- rance and fear. Rev. Dr. Nancy Jay Crumbine Norwich, VT Respect Different Religions, Lifestyles I am writing in response to Reverend Leslie’s “Faith Matters and Justice Matters” column in the March 2000 issue of OITM. I am disap- pointed and offended at the thoughtlessness ‘exhibited in her February 2 letter to the House Judiciary Committee (I would rather presume thought- lessness than that she inten- tionally used an anti-Jewish slant in her letter). I wonder why a member of the clergy would find it neces- sary to be disrespectful of another religion to argue that the House of Representatives should grant civil rights to les- bians and gay men. The sen- tence that Jewish “laws were designed to keep the ancient Jews holy but not necessarily moral” had no place in the let- ter. What authority was being cited or paraphrased? At the least, it seems arrogant for a Christian minister to claim to know the purpose of Jewish laws and to somehow presume they are not part of a moral code. In my opinion, a stronger and far more positive letter could have been written by cit- ing the original law and explaining it in context, rather than just dismissing it out of hand as an ancient injus- tice. (Commentators have indi- cated that the law referred to was in response to surrounding cultures’ sexual-religious rites — Everett Fox translates Leviticus 18.3, an introductory verse to this section of Torah, as “What is done in Egypt, wherein you were settled, you are not to do; what is done in the land of Canaan, to which I am bringing you, you are not to do; by their laws you are not to walk.”) An even better letter might have acknowledged the prohibition" against gay male sex (as well as the prohibition directly after that against eat- ing from a fruit tree until the fifth year), but pointed out that what was under consideration ' by the Legislative Committee was a civil and not a religious matter. c There has been more than enough rhetoric surrounding this civil rights issue based on fear and ignorance. It would be better for everyone if we could strive in all of our interactions to promote understanding and tolerance for people who are not of the majority culture, rather than be seduced into finding “others” to scapegoat. Sherri Kasten Montpelier A Taste of Home Editor: I was so proud and happy to find your publication on the Internet. I now live in Chicago, but I am still proud to call Burlington my favorite place to have lived. I was encour- aged to see that OutRight Vermont is still going strong in the state for issues of Queer and Questioning youth and their allies. I was one person §..§‘§"?£%§'§ :a« $3 Q ‘-nag,-Iv\$v|r,‘A.dA)-.;\;I_~,-4‘ .» ,,. .. «... ,,.. -. «. '- . w v