4 — Our in MOUNTAINS — Sepremeea 1999 A EDITORIAL T hat_ Was Then — This Is Now here was no question I about how_ we should respond to the death of David Curtis. The date and time of a memorial service was announced and we attended in droves. I didn’t hesitate for a sec- ond to rearrange my schedule so that my daughter and I could be present when David’s friends, family, and colleagues gathered to celebrate his life and mourn the loss they were experiencing. We know what to do when we want to demonstrate our respect and grief. We’re not nearly so unified or confident when it comes to_fac- ing hate at its ugliest. In the week before the Westboro Baptist Church came to visit, we gath- ered together in several different groups and places to discuss what, if anything, to do about it. Personally, although there was no question that I would cover it, I was enraged to think that those vitriolic jerks would be able to get me out of bed early enough to make it from Middlebury to Montpelier by 7:00 am. This wasn’t laziness on my part. Like many others, I liked the ‘What-if-Fred—gave-a-party- and-no-one-came’ approach and just couldn’t condone giving obviously hate-filled outsiders that much control~ and power over our lives. I went to Montpelier that morning with great trepidation, afraid that emotions would get out of con- trol and something terrible would happen —— fears that went unrealized. In fact, I must admit that I’m glad I was there to experience for myself the positive energy that swelled over the hate from the Westboro Baptist message. The message of open-minded love and consideration for everyone wasn’t an attitude the counter- demonstrators assumed for a day. It was genuine and awe- inspiring and a memory I’ll carry with me always. But What Have We Done Lately? Through the uproar, many of our community leaders asked us to concentrate not on what we would do that one Tuesday morning in August, but on what we should do the next morning and every day after that to effect a real change and make a real difference. And in the days between the announcement of the impending visit from the Topeka folks and the event itself, energy, emotion, discussion, and activity were all high. People who had previously proclaimed themselves “not political” were driven by shock and anger to get involved. I got calls from several people asking “what can I do?” and “how can I help?” Some were just looking for direction on the demonstra- tion itself; others were moved to connect with a volunteer organi- zation within our community. As a matter of fact, a huge portion of last month’s Out in the Mountains distribution got done because two women wanted to. “do something” — and they showed up and did it. I’ve heard that several other groups saw an upsurge of volunteerism during that same time. That was a month ago. What will happen to the energy gener- ated by our loss and by our self- defense? Strong feelings and good intentions got us out of our beds and our routines on both occasions. Have we acted on those feelings and good inten- tions since then? Have we signed a petition supporting one of our causes? Have we volunteered with or donated to the worthy organization of our choice? Have we come .out to someone? Have we taken opportunities to edu- cate the people we spend our nonnal days with about issues important to us? Are we tuning in to the more polished, more palatable assaults on our com- munity? Remember the letter from Hawaii? No single organization is THE group to join. Our commu- nity is beautiful in its diversity and its varying opportunities for each of us to make a difference. Have we made the most of it? What will we do today? Tomorrow? What better way to honor David.CurtiS’ memory than to further strengthen the communi- ties he worked so hard for? Even those of us who didn’t know David personally live better lives because of the work he did. His death caused many of us to stop and grieve, reflect on how he_ affected our lives, and wonder what the future would be like without him. One of the people who spoke at the memorial ser- vice wondered whether there is anyone of David’s caliber to carry on. But the truth is that David lived his convictions, and that’s all any of us need to do to make a difference. So —— with no rally to attend, what are you going to do today? 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