FAITH MATTERS BY REV. CHRISTINE LESLIE 3 many of us are already “aware, a group of people have been organizing a GLBT community center in the Burlington area. The group’s clever use of “RU12?” in market- ing of the concept and naming the center has been effective and some- times funny. (It has tick- led me that RU12? had some of us wondering why on earth we would name a GLBT commu- nity center after a round four-foot-tall robot from the Star Wars trilogy.) The dinner these folks organized at the Radisson Hotel in March was elegant and fun. It gave us a glimpse of what it might be like to have a gathering place that could be our com- munity’s home, in which all kinds of programs and activities might be housed and offered. Attending /this dinner also got me thinking about our natural hunger for community and just how impor- tant communing with other GLBT people in safe and sup- portive settings is to our health and well being. Due to the permeating pres- ence of homophobia in our world, GLBT people have few systems ‘or structures that help us recognize our sexual orientation without fear and frustration, and then embrace and internalize who we are in healthy, loving ways. We also have few systems and structures in place to help straight people become allies so they can come out of their closets of fear, Sugaquam ignorance, and silence to stand, with us when and where it counts. Many GLBT people come out and work to embrace and inter- nalize their sexual orientation through trial and error. Some sur- Yive this process intact; some don’t, only to live sad and lonely lives. Experience has shown me that many come out and live quiet lives of desperation and isolation until they commune with a wide array of healthy, self-loving GLBT people in safe and support- ive ways. Seeing ourselves in the mirror of others like us can mean the_ difference between silent, self-loathing desperation and joy- ful, self-loving celebration. Think about it: religious folks have churches, mosques, and synagogues in which to find each other. Athletes have teams to play on. Singers and musicians have chorales and bands they can join. Recovering folks have AA and NA to attend. Hikers and bikers have clubs to tour with. Scholars have universities and colleges to study in. Where do GLBT folks go to commune openly on any kind of regular basis? Since Pride Day occurs only once a year, and bars meet only a sliver of our need for community, having a GLBT-identified community center as an entry point into the tribe seems like a really good idea, one I wholeheartedly sup- port. It is my hope and prayer that that the RUl2? Community Center could be just such a place of our own. We have come a long way since the Stonewall Rebellion, which took place 30 years‘ ago this month. I rejoice that we now have numerous GLBT-identified news- papers, bookstores, magazines, resorts, and youth and cultural organizations such as Outright VT and the Samadhi Singers in our area, helping us navigate the inter- nal and external waters of homo- phobia. I will be even more glad when we have a community cen- ter that serves as entry point, home to a variety of programs and activities, and spring-board to life in the wider community without shame and fear. My faith in the worthiness of our communing was strength- ened by the RU12? Community Center dinner in March. I was fed Faith Matters & communitv Matters by the creativity of the organizers and the program they presented as well as the food and socializ- ing the evening made possible. I look forward to the day when we will be able to hold such a dinner in our own home. Until that day comes, we will continue to create opportunities to commune with the help of allied spiritual communities all Seeing ourselves in the mirror of others like us can mean the diflerence between silent, self- loathing desperation and joyful, self-loving celebration. ‘ over the state. In Burlington, Christ Church Presbyterian, a “More Light” congregation, provides The Samadhi Singers, with rehearsal space free of charge. I am very proud of the fact that St. Paul’s Episcopal Church is sponsoring The Samadhi Singers’ First Annual Gay Pride Month Concert, a benefit for Outright VT. We hope hundreds~will com- mune with us on June 6. The more community matters to us, the more faith — in our- selves as GLBT people and The One who made each of us — can matter. Such events as this and those planned for Pride Day help us grow in our understanding, acceptance, and support of who we are. 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