01/1‘ //7 //re /l/01//71‘a/'/is Established in 1986 Editor: Christopher Moes Business Manager: Steven West Production Manager: Donald Eggert Circulation Manager: David Grist Website Managers: Kathie Sawyer, Tracy Buttles Proofreader: Elizabeth Hansen Office Manager: Tracy Kommons Sales: Donna Freeman, Roger Mapes Braiiist: Deborah Cioutier Fowler Computer Support: Amy Hoffman Intern: Gwynn Guiltord Contributors: Bennett Law, James Montstream, Peter Kurth, Steven Stowell, Lynn Martin, Donald Giguere, Betsy McLane, Carey V. Johnson, Celia Cuddy, Constance Craving, Endora, Allen Fletcher, Donna Freeman, David ~ Gramling, Joy D. Griffith, Sal lnglima, Kirsten lsgro, Rev. Christine Leslie, Peggy Luhrs, Paul Olsen, Beth Robinson, Esther Rothblum, Chris Tebbens 02/1/77 #79 Mou/7/a/'/75 (ISSN 1 081-5562) is published monthly by Mountain Pride Media, Inc. The newspaper maintains offices at 109 South Winooski Avenue in Burlington, Vermont. 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Materials should be sent to: Cut in the Mountains PO BOX 177 Burlington, VT 05402-0177 phone: (802)865-9294 email: oitm@together.net Check us out on the World Wide Web! http 1/ www.vtpride.org OITM now available in braille format! Contact Chris Moes at (802) 865-9294 for more information. 2 — OUT IN THE MOUNTAINS — OCTOBER 1997 OP-ED: Let's Agree To Disagree —”Ancl Mean It, Please BY PETER KURTH Diversity (n): the condition of being differentor having differ- ences. . ' Consensus (n): general agreement; unanimity. [From Webster's Seventh New Colle- giate Dictionary] The ongoing flap over "leadership" and ”decision— making" at the Burlington Wo1nen's Council, coupled with what has obviously be- come a personal war of words between the past and present leaders of the council, has got me thinking about something that doesn't get thought about enough in these parts: the true meaning of the word "diver— sity" and the lemming-like pursuit of "agreement" and "consensus" that afflicts the g/ l/b /t agenda in Vermont. I am absolutely convinced that the blind desire for "consensus" is the single most destructive component in a politics that is, more and more often these days, just spinning its collec- tive wheels. Before I go any further - before the angry letters start pumping into OITM's mailbox —— let me say that I'm not "tak— ing sides” in the increasingly juvenile and rancorous debate about the Women's Council. I am speaking, so to say, as a member of the public, who reads the news and "hears the talk on the street,” just as Peggy Luhrs does. I'm sure I don't know whether Ms. Luhrs or Jennifer Matthews is in the right about the council's di- lemma. They've both been de- monized and they've both made ridiculous statements for the record. I'm only here to tell you, as a grown—up and an American citizen, that the gay and lesbian community has nothing to fear from disagree- ment, dissent or, for that mat- ter, raging quarrels and cat fights. How did the idea ever take roof that no deliberative or representative body could take action or get its work done until everyone agrees with ev- eryone else? Why are we in the g/l/b/t community so afraid of opinions and beliefs that are different from our own — we who never stop complaining that things would be all right if only "they" would accept us as we are. Diversity means "different" — it does not mean "the same." Consensus means "agreement" —— it does not me "plurality." Why do we spend — no, waste — so much of our time, energy and resources in a vain attempt to "smooth over differences” and "get along” with one another? lennifer steps on Peggy's toes; Peggy smears finger-paint intxo ]ennifer's hair; do both of them need to behave themselves be- fore they can drink their juice? I don't think so. These are the values and goals of a kinder- garten, not a political body with decisions to make, much less an organization and a col- lection of persons — namely, feminist women — who know, or should know, that their com- mon enemy lies outside and well beyond the council's doors. In a recent "Free Press” report about the Women's Council's woes, I read only two statements that made any sense to me from the point of. View of effective politics. One was from Sandy Baird, who said, "The council now reflects many more political views than it did in the past" — a dangerously sensible remark reflecting the obvious truth that "agreement" is not re- quired in order to conduct business. The other was from Lou Andrews, responding to charges that Iennifer Matthews’ "negative stereo- types of lesbians" were "divid- ing the council." "It doesn't divide," said Andrews; "I think there "are" strong divisions." In other words, differences are real and disagreement may be ex- pected. Disagreement, indeed, _to "tighten its by-laws, WM . Searching for a Realtor with a considerable experience? Call on the agent people have been turning to for 15 years. Bill esautels Realtor, CRS, GRI North Professionals o 655-3333 ext. 17 Each office independently owned and operated V Proud member of the Rainbow Business Association V 2‘. ., .t.,.r.....i.».:.t:s.\.tfi.:.. mlfq ;n~.:a’ui.4....~t-........:... .. .-.-. .-.' j.-.-.-I. §. "must" be tolerated in a de- mocracy. It is the unpopular view and the maverick posi- tion that needs protection, "not" the will of the majority or whatever the politically "correct" interpretation might be. Political correctness is a blight on this society. It is anti- democratic. It is authoritarian and intolerant of dissent. It is, in fact, all the things it claims to be "correcting." So when the lesbian faction at the Women's Council complains that ]enni- fer Matthews "doesn't work to help us reach consensus," it betrays a level of intolerance fully equal to the kind it insists it despises. It is not the business of a democracy to ensure consen- sus, but to take action by reach- ing decisions. Peggy Luhrs is far more honest when she says that the Women's Council needs a new leader, period: "That's the only thing that would restore my faith." That, too, is the way democracy works. Instead, because every- one is so afraid of not agreeing with one another, or of being on the losing side, or — God forbid — of having their feel- ings hurt, the council is going " "cre- ate a policy manual," work on job descriptions and establish "quantifiable means" to evalu- ate itself so that a safe space may be enjoyed by all the little kids under the tent. It is, in other words, going to sink into the bottomless "pit of cornrnitg tees, mediators, consensus- building and "process." It's going to waste more time and_ more money. And it's going to become the laughing-stock of a larger community that isn_' t fully convinced it should exist at all. "E pluribus bunkum." Why don't we all grow up a little and acknowledge that the world of politics is rough and bumpy, just as the road of personal destiny is bumpy, filled with setbacks and disappointments along with the occasional empower- ing triumph? Or are we intent on sabotaging ourselves and our (various) agendas by in- sisting on a false conformity and a phony display of like- mindedness that cannot and will not conceal the very real differences among us? EDITORIAL BY Cf-lRlS’l"Ol’HEl{ Moes There is a desperate need for us to reexamine our AIDS fundraising habits. A great deal of money is leaving our state for services in other states. While I am glad people are raising money, there is a serious situation where Local AIDS organizations are having funds disappear.‘ The initial numbers coming in from the AIDS Walk is that the amount of money raised has decreased this year, while the totals from the AIDS Ride have increased dramatically. The AIDS Ride benefits Fenway Community Health Center, which has few if any clients from Vermont. The AIDS ride has come under a great deal of contro- versy lately in the national media, as it has been revealed that as little as twenty percent may go to the beneficiary in- volved. There has been a call to boycott AIDS ride by nu- merous organizations. The inventor of AIDS ride, Ray Palotta has a salary of 270,000 a year, just thirty thousand less than the entire staff budget for Vermont CARES for a year. AIDSRide was able to take out full page ads in Vermont Newspapers, one ad alone exceeded the en- tire advertising budget for the AIDS walk’.- ' Another factorto keep in mind: Vermont currently has a waiting list for People'With AIDS to getlon protease'inhibi- tors, Massachusetts does not. People who are sick are wait- ing for‘ medication, ‘while money leaves the state. - .It is time’ for the generous and ‘energetic fund-raisers of Vermont to rethink their in- volvement in AIDS ride. But I am not asking anyone not to raise money for AIDS. We need the money here, please, con- tinue the same fundrajsing, but on at local level. Together we can organize our own rides or swims (although we can't use the word, "AIDSride" appar- ently Palotta has copywritten the name to protect his mo- nopoly). As a community we can insure the health and well being of our neighbors. '|. Numc VEF?lVlONT’S FORUM FOR LESBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL AND TRANSGENDER |SSUES By subscribing now to Out in the Mountains, not only will you get delivery. to your mailbox (in :1 discreet cnvclopc). but you also help underwrite the rising costs of publishing I and distributing the newspaper. We welcome any additional contributions you can make to support this and other important publishing projects. Checks should be made payable to I Mountain Pride Media, and sent, along with this card, to: OITM V P.O. Box I77 V Burlington. Vermont V 05402-0177 ___________________1 Out in the Mountains Address I Town/City .,\_.sfeir-tux.‘-.\‘< lira. !‘i.1'i’t‘!" *4?'l—-.« ~. '51. r".—'a"""'t‘0:%'t~'t~ 6 .... ... 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