Out in the Mountains Teaching AIDS Prevention at Harwood High? Don’t Say Blow Job! Vermont CARES still cares after banned from Hanrvood Union High School Fred Kuhr One day last November, John Olson, education coordinator for Vermont CARES, an AIDS service organiza- tion based in Burlington, spoke to stu- dents at Harwood Union High School, in South Duxbury, concerning the pre- vention of AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases. On that same day, Harwood became the first high school in the state to adopt a condom distribution policy making condoms available to students from certain teachers as well as the school nurse. Later that month, the principal of Har- wood, Glenn Frank, stated that Ver- mont CARES would not be invited \1l:.\lEl;R Prudential Referral Services“ l\T|‘R\\"lll)\\l. \|T\\l)RK Edward J. Kaufman Broker/REALTOR Voice Mail (802) 864-1905 ext. 35 (802) 864-0541 FAX (802) 864-1910 360 Main Street. Burlington. Vermont 05401 05753 BURLINGTON OFFICE: 275 COLLEGE STREET BURLINGTON. VERMONT 05402 802-B64-OZI7 SUSAN M. MURRAY LANGROCK SPERRY & WOOL ATTORNEYS AT LAW 15 SOUTH PLEASANT STREET MIDDLEBURY, VERMONT TELEPHONE: 388-6356 HOME PHONE: 577-3lG5 back to present similar sessions in the future. After parents complained about Olson’s use of “street lan- guage”, Frank was reported in the Burlington Free Press as saying, “There were certainly parts of it that I feel were inappropriate.” Questions remained unanswered after the Free Press ran its story on No- vember 27 covering this incident. Ol- son and Vermont CARES have pre- sented the same classroom instruction as part of its “Face To Face” program in other high schools throughout Addi- son, Chittenden, Rutland, and Wash- ington counties. Student reaction to these sessions, including the one pre- sented at Harwood, are generally fa- vorable. Also, Harw0od’s new con- dom distribution policy is a “model”, according to Kate Hill, Executive Di- rector of Vermont CARES, and the de- cision to ban Vermont CARES “flies in the face of their very realistic ap- proach.” So why did they do it? Hill places the majority of the blame for Frank’s decision on the minority of community members who fought the condom distribution policy “tooth and nail’’. Although Olson’s appear- ance at Harwood on the same day was coincidence, this minority saw Olson and Vermont CARES as their next target after losing the first battle. Hill said that their policy at every school is to use “language that lots of kids will understand” including terms like blow job and go down on as well AREA CODE: 602 FAX O: 388-6 I 49 » @‘ Walter I. Zeichner, M.A., N.C.C., @ Certified Clinical Mental Health Counselor Psychotherapy ~ BodyWork ~ Massage Therapy Gay & Lesbian Positive ~ Gender Issues Educational Consulting ~ Workshops & Trainings 323 Pearl St. ,Burlington, Vt. 05401 (802) 863-5510 as oral sex. According to Olson, some parents are “a little surprised or upset by street language...Some kids may be surprised by an adult using this kind of language.” Both Hill and Olson agree, however, that this mix of technical lan- guage and street slang is the best way to reach all the students. Frank stated the school’s new policy concerning AIDS education in the Free Press article, “...we will handle that subject ourselves, with our own teachers who are the best qualified, because...the children know them and trust them.” According to Hill, for the “average teacher”, this approach does not work. Most adults “bring (their) own baggage about sex” with them, she said. Hill also pointed out that since teachers and students al- ready know each other on a daily ba- sis, many students would not be as likely to ask personal questions. Ol- son’s feelings on the subject are sim- ilar. “I would love to see all educators do this kind of a program,” he said in a phone interview, “but that doesn’t always work.” Another complaint lodged by angry parents was that Olson only spent five minutes out of the 45 minute session talking about abstinence. Olson re- sponded by saying that he always tells students that abstinence is a valid op- tion, “but they've heard that already”. He sees his job as getting out the facts on HIV and AIDS to the students and teaching them how to reduce the risk of infection. The personal issues of HIV and AIDS must also be discussed, he Wellness Consultation