In September, The Massachusetts Su- preme Judicial Court ruled that “the state’s law on joint adoptions does not require a legal marriage and that same- sex couples are eligible to jointly adopt children,” according to a Washington Blade article. This ruling was prompt- ed by the joint adoption case of Dr. Su- san Love and Dr. Helen Cooksey. Their lawyer, Katherine Triantafillou, stated that the three judges who voted against the ruling “would have voted to approve the adoption if Cooksey was given pa- rental rights and Love surrendered pa- rental rights but retained custody and visitation rights.” In October, an editorial in The New York Times stated, “In deciding what’s best for a child, it’s fair to look at a large range of issues. But the sexual or- ientation of parents is not one of them. Gay parents should not have to live in fear of losing their children simply be- cause of who they are.” While many positive events are taking place, not all is rosy. In September, a state judge in Virginia gave custody of a two year old to the child's grandmother because the child’s mother, Sharon Bot- toms, is a lesbian and also involved in a relationship. A circuit court judge said Bottoms’ “conduct is illegal and immoral and renders her an unfit parent.” Nancy Polikoff, Assistant Professor of Law at American University in Wash- ington, D.C., cites another downside to -_————~ all that is positive. She has stated that most of these adoption rulings apply to gays and lesbians who want to adopt bi- ological children of their partners, and courts are much less likely to grant adoptions to same—sex couples who go through social service agencies. Also, Florida and our neighbor, New Hamp- shire, have specific laws prohibiting adoptions by partners of the same sex. Unfortunately, Verrnont’s H283, if it becomes law, is not far from doing the same. According to Goslant, the Adop- tion Reform Task Force, the committee that authored the bill, did not want to deal with the issue of adoption by same- sex couples at all. The committee felt that “same-sex marriage” laws should come first. However, they were later convinced that not mentioning the issue was the same as taking a stand against it. “This is by no means the only thing we need to do with custody” Goslant said in a phone interview, “There’s still more work to do.” He said that with the religious right doing a great deal of grass-roots organizing and the un- certainty of H283, “the rights of our kids are still not guaranteed.” To find out more about the status of the Adoption Reform Bill, contact the Ver- mont Coalition of Lesbians and Gay Men, PO Box 1125, Montpelier, VT 05602. V Out in the Mountains January 1994 Hardwick , Chiropractic Dr. Grace Johnstone An integrated approach to health care. l Mill St., Hardwlck 472-3033 JOHN THIBAULT 8: CO. total hair care Kara M arabella 658-2010 I 19 College St., Burlington, VT VERMONT'S NEWSPAPER FOR LESBIANS, GAY MEN, AND BISEXUALS By subscribing now to OITM, not only will you guarantee delivery to your I mailbox (in a discreet envelope, of course), but you will also help under- I write the rising costs of publishing the newspaper. We also welcome any : additional contributions you can make to support our continuingexistence. Checks should be made payable to OITM and sent, along with this form, to: OITM, P.O. Box 177, Burlington, Vermont 05402-0177. Name Address City State Zip Cl One-year ($20) El Low-income ($10) Cl Sponsor ($____j,)r Sponsors are especially welcome from those who prefer to pick up 01 M at one of the paper's distribution points rather than be added to the mailing list. El Please also let us know if you'd like to get involved in the newspaper. 1/94 l3 10% OFF 151' CUT W/THIS CARD Submitting a Letter OITM welcomes letters to the Editor and will withhold your name or use your initials or first name only on request. However, we must have your full name and address for our files if we are to print your letter.‘ Letters may be edited for length or clarity. V