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To learn more about: - HlV testing - Benefits of knowing your HIV ‘ status - Treatment, support and counseling options HIV/l\l[lS PROGRAM info Call Vermont AEDS Hotline: 1 -800- 882- AIDS A ten women who gathered at a home in downtown Burlington in November to discuss an Old Dykes Home, however, it is begin- ning to seem just around the bend. At present we are all doing nicely, thank you, but neverthe- less we agreed that for the best solutions, we need to plan ahead. Each person came with some particular concerns along with suggestions on how to handle them, and as we went around the circlea plan began to take shape. The original vision of an Old Dykes Home started with one of us who had noticed a build- ing standing vacant that might be useful to our purposes. We started to dream of keeping les- bian community alive through the later years. What about a mix of ages and abilities, so those who needed a bit of help to maintain their independence could be matched with those who needed a bit of help in affording hous- ing? What about shared dining, to promote not only sociability, but also better nutrition than is apt to happen when cooking for one? Another person, who currently lives in senior housing, said that a similar effect could be achieved by moving into an existing facil- ity as apartments come on the market, thus building the com- munity gradually. She pointed out another advantage of living close to others: friends could The Condo Guy 875 Roosevelt Hwy,Suite 210 Colchester,VT 05446 P 800-639-4520 J: P (802)655-9100 P (802)655-3333 F (802) 655-0400 E info@condoguy.com www.condoguy.com regularly to make sure no one is in an emergency and needs help. As for shared dining, the facility _ has public space for that. We all agreed to hold our next meeting as a potluck at that location, look around, and check out the situa- tion. If you would be interested in joining us, look for more infor- mation at the end of this article. H16 Planning for a Lesbian-Friendly Old Age Bread, for future needs of their own. Matching up women who need some care with those who need some money, as mentioned above, would also require some sort of central connection. A person would be needed to or- ganize it, handle emergencies, and create a website. This way we would have computer-based communication, both within The original vision of an Old Dykes Home started with one of us who had noticed a building standing vacant that might be useful to our purposes. In order to be ready to move as soon as an apartment becomes available, without breaking a lease or selling too quickly, we need to have a net- _ work of lesbians with accessible spare rooms who are willing to share for a month or two. This might also come into play for stays during recuperation from an illness or accident, when a person might temporarily not be able to handle things alone. Another of us had already been thinking about organizing a network of women who are not yet living in the facility. They could perhaps volunteer their services and in return receive paper credit, such as Burlington Summer Woods finished basement. I izrmx PROFESSIONALS Two bedroom end unit in South Burlington. This home backs up to the woods. Tons of upgrades, $274,000 the community and with others who are interested in joining. In fact, one woman who was pretty sure she would never use this kind of housing nonetheless liked the idea of sharing meals and social events with residents, and keeping up with what was going on there. The residents, in turn, would undoubtedly not only need to go out to shop, see doc- tors, and so on, but would also enjoy trips for visits and events. Shared transportation would serve those who no longer drive, be environmentally friendly, and would be, all agreed, more fun. As the scope of our vision expanded, one final input re- ally widened our horizons. In Steeplebush Three bedroom, 2 l/2 bath Essex townhouse in a sought after nieghborhood. Garage, full basement. $219,900 l discussing similar projects around the country, one woman mentioned that she had connec- tions with a place in Key West. What about exchange programs with women there, or with an- other community in Arizona‘?- We discussed many other issues, such as pets, partners, Section 8, and what health care requirements would be more than we could cope with. This W obviously is brainstorming, not , a project ready to roll; but we’ _ are starting small, getting ac- ‘ quainted, building trust, and thinking of some services we __ could provide even now to .‘ I l 1 the elders of our community. If you have read this far, you , probably have ideas of your , ' own, and we would love to hear them. You do not have to be l on the verge of elderhood. As i mentioned, we are interested in I . multi-generational connections. If you would be interested in joining l us, the next meeting is Sunday , afternoon, December 10.7 The next meeting for those interested in the concept of Old Dykes Home will be at 2 pm, Sunday, December 10. For details, call Sophie at 238-4927. Fran Moravcsik is a former board member of Mountain Pride Media. Winding Brook Bright 2 bedroom South Burlington townhouse, efficient heat, garage, court yard, priced right! $209,900 l A Q s The Condo Guy