Do you have a sharp eye for detail? Are you looking for a place to use your talents? Join us forthe final proofreading session before OITM goes to the press. Volunteers please contact editor@mountainpridemedia. org or call 861.6486. $3-gasxy bl’ . * *‘§.*3*‘i““““ I "“l‘*‘Wti*»i4.’§**~:-ési.**~’.‘l I , ’-”“°‘§t’~*°~'~:a~‘3***ai§_:aee.v~- { 4. ‘“ ~ X1 “ “' ‘ ~ 1; i v 158 5» agave; 9,4-v 3, Q; ‘-*n..:w«u’.;m "W, .. ‘ at ‘-« '.‘*‘—~a?"¢.' ». xuz‘:r~....a-vinianwu , » 23 l i, 5. «Li ,7 ¢'«“* ‘ ‘ll Woman-Stirred Radio , fig Premier GLBTQ Radio Show Hosted by Merry Gangemi Interviews with GLBTQ writers, poets, musicians and artists from Vermont... and the rest of the world. WGDR 91.1 FM Goddard College Stream it ‘live at www.wgdr.org ‘ BY PEGGY LUHRS here seems to be some controversy about Broke- back Mountain. No, I don’t mean the religious right wing- nuts, I mean within the LGBT community. I neither loved nor hated it. I liked it. It was a good movie, good cinematog- Bl‘llI{Ellllt|{: more Biff than nevi phy of the cowboy movie. And likely “I don’t know how to quit you” will go right up there with “you know how to whistle don't you” a.nd other bits of dialogue — that have entered the American lexicon. It is also centrally a love story between two men. What upset the religious right and made the likes of Chris ’’If we really want to see a story about strong men, let's see the one where the cowboys dare to come out and live feeling and ethically consistent lives.” raphy, terrific acting and excel- lent direction from Ang Lee. That I didn’t love it probably has a lot to do with the fact that I’m a lesbian and it is hard to see the grunting and grab- bing between these guys as a great love story. Yet by the end you do see it as a great love story. The repressed emotion is of a piece with the western life these guys are living and part of the genre to show men’s feel- ings leaking out from their rug- ged facades. In fact that seems to be what defines acting for many in the US, a real macho man letting on to some feeling ala Eastwood, DeNiro, Wayne, Cooper, Stallone et al. Most of the elements of love and loss are shown through their de- privation of eachother rather than their connection. What I did love about the movie, what makes it a groundbreaking film is how it changes the iconogra- Matthews, Don Imus and other straight men so nervous \. as the idea that cowboys could be gay. I know it's hard to summon up .. sympathy for these guys but its sooo distressing to have your surefire masculinity models brought into question. I first no- ticed this at the family Thanks- giving table when I talked about a gay pro football player. My fa- ther’s business partner couldn't handle that. He simply refused to believe it. When Ellen’s sitcom died, Bill Maher opined the show had gone too far trying to make people believe everyone was gay when they had a gay phunber. According to Maher, everyone knew tradespeople weren‘t gay, except just the lesbians. One commentator even claimed the movie had raped the Marlboro man. If that's so, I’d say that as the quintessential American image of granite chis- eled dominance, he needed it. Straight men like to think all gay 5 men are in the nancy boy cate- ‘V _ gory. Taking in thevery essential }» masculinity of men lovinggngen ism“ too scary. One objection I’ve heard _ within the glbt community is “oh ,,_ no not another movie about gays- where somebody dies." Yes, it y will be truly liberating when gay- themed films just show us the character’s successful struggles in life. But this is a quintes- sentially queer story. This is the — first time the story has been told ‘ ' in such a big crossover movie. Homophobia still kills, if not out- right, then in many slow deaths of addiction, depression, poverty I and isolation. _ ' Things have changed, but not enough and not for everyone. This story needed to be told. It makes all the sense in the world that where the tough guy ethic rules as it does in the west, a - man might suffer the most for disloyalty to the code of mas- culinity constructed as laconic, undemonstrative cowboys. Enjoy the scenery. Huzzahs to Ang Lee for brealdng the mold. Heath Ledger was great but the Oscar goes to Phillip Seymour iioifnian for Capote. But if we really want to see a Story about strong men, let's see the one where the cowboys dare” to come out and live feeling and .; ethically consistent lives. V . Peggy Luhrs is a lifelong ac- tivist and former instructor of 2 film at Burlington College