safety Patrol Thanks On behalf of the staff at Safespace, I’d like to extend my thanks to Euan Bear for the wonderful article about the services and support our agency provides to LGBTQQ survivors of violence. I would like to echo Euan‘s words that lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer and questioning lives count. Our experi- ences, struggles, and celebrations mark a rich history. This social and political history reflects our strug- gles for equality, justice and the right to be treated as human. This history is a path of continual inclu- sion and exclusion. As a young Queer person I am proud to be part ofxa community that has accomplished so much and made it possible for me to come out and be part of something bigger. SafeSpace ‘came out’ because of the dedication and hard work of activists who realized that LGBTQQ people deserve the same support and advocacy that has been available to heterosexual and women’s commu- nities for so many years. There is much more work to be done and many more alliances to build with other social justice groups-- and this work is necessary for our movement to expand, welcome more allies and ensure that all of us can live without fear of violence and discrimination. I am confident that SafeSpace will continue to play an instrumental part in expanding and challenging Vermont’s response to and education about violence to be ever-more inclusive. SafeSpace services are available to people of all ages, statewide, and are free and confi- dential. We encourage you to call us.( toll-free at 866-869-7341 or 802-863-0003 around Burlington) V with any questions about our work, if you are interested in scheduling a out in the mountains training for your group or want to volunteer your time. Clark Sheldon SafeSpace Youth Program Coordinator Thank you for your balanced report- ing in this story [Safety Patrol, October 2004]. You have helped get rid of some old harmful myths and aided your community's progress. I'm sure this will be appreciated by your local residents. You may be interested in my DVAZOO4 Media Recon Project at my website. I'm tracking media nationwide in hopes of finding sto- ries of this kind. More information is here: desertlightjoumal.blog-city.com/. Trudy W. Schuett via the Internet Define Feminist I like Anne Moore’s writing - it’s fresh and she’s observant. Or maybe it’s the other way around What I don’t get is what’s ‘feminist’ about it. In “Mean Girls” (Culture Vulture, October 2004), Moore relishes the camera that pans longingly in slo-mo over the body of a young and apparently luscious actress playing a high school girl and then rejoices because the cam- era represents two other high school girls and a gay boy, a group of out- siders. So what is it that makes the objectification and commodification of a woman’s body okay when it’s done by other women instead of by men? In my kind of feminism, it’s equally dehumanizing either way. Maybe there‘s room for some discussion of the (still) differ- ing power dynamic among women as opposed to between men and women, and that’s what makes it letters okay - at least for Moore. But let’s be careful about throwing around the label feminist when the analysis falls way short, eh? Jane L. Allison St. Johnsbury Correction: Due to an editing error, Paul OIsen’s degree was incorrectly identified in his taglinc. He recently earned a doctorate in education (Ed.D.), not a Ph.D. V BY GL0 DALEY With typical firm grace and clear- eyed strength, Ginny Clarke passed over into death in the early mom- ing hours of October llth. She was 72. For many years Ginny lived with and worked with Parkinson’s disease which took an increasingly greater toll on her body. Several months ago I vis- ited her in Underhill where she had been living with her daughter Chris. I hadn’t seen her in a while and, to my eyes, she appeared to be quite weak physically and suf- fering substantial discomfort. I asked her, “How is life being for you?” assuming I would hear of the many difficulties she was cop- ing with every day. Her eyes grew bright and she said, “Oh G10, I am loving every day!” Then, as I had seen her do before, she broke into a poem, this one about the grandeur of trees, reciting it in its entirety. A Sagittarius, Ginny was an enthusiastic seeker of meaning In Memorm: Ginny Clarke and truth. She shared with me, on that occasion, her excitement about the work of EckhardtTol1e. Jeanette Andrew, with whom she had a long, deep and abiding love, had introduced her to Tolle’s The Power of Now, and now she want- ed to introduce me. She was clear- ly in the present as we sat in her back yard. She had been meditat- ing and spoke of wanting to find an instructor. As she looked about her, she seemed to be in love with the trees, the flitting birds and the movement of her grand child. " group that met to discuss and con- ease, she courageously chose to let For some time Ginny had been a main force behind a small template any and all issues of liv- ing and dying. She spoke of how much benefit and support she’d been deriving from being in the group. Thinking back, I remem- ber Ginny as a proficient yoga teacher and a strong cross country skier. She invited me to join her one winter day and though I was ten years younger, I was unable to keep up with her amazing vigor. She was never defeated or embittered by her long relation- ship with Parkinson’s, choosing instead to be delighted by her life. When recently confronted with the prospect of new, far reaching and painful complications of her dis- go of life. Calling her loving and beloved family and friends togeth- er, she was able to swiftly, peace- fully, and joyfully slip away. 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