editorial in an era where working for glbtq rights is passé, unnecessary, where we can just be assimilated and live like everyone else, here are two instructive stories. In mid-April, the Douglas Administration proposed regulations that would ignore the Vermont Civil Union law when assessing a same-sex couple for eligi- bility for Medicaid funding for long-term care. It’s one of those things you hope never to need to know, but here it is. Medicaid is made up of a combina- tion of state and federal -funding. Under fed- eralregulations, the state would not include a same.-sex civil union partner’s income when assessing the resources of a low- income gay man or lesbian in need of long- term care. This is the infamous “spend- down” provision: how poor do we have to _ get before Medicaid kicks in? The existing regulation requires the state to assess the financial resources of both partners in a marriage when one spouse . needs Medicaid-funded long-term care. But the proposed regulation might end up cost- ing the state money by excluding considera- tion of a civil union spouse’s financial resources. I Confused yet? It’s one of those places where equality would cost gay men and lesbians money, and even so, we want it. It’s like the “marriage tax.” As Rep. Bill Lippeit said, it’s what we “deliberately established” in the civil union legislation: all the rights, bene- fits, and responsibilities of marriage, includ- ing supporting each other when we’re ill. The regulation was approved by the Legislature’s Administrative Rules Committee, but as of press time, there was a move afoot to reconsider. The regulation ignoring the state civil union law for Medicaid purposes could still be imposed by the Administration over the objection of the legislature. But if it was ever contested in court, the burden of proof would fall on the state rather than on the plaintiffs. Bottom line: state regulations should be the same for all of us, and the Douglas Administration is apparently attempting an end-run around the civil ' unions law, nibbling away at our new parity by regulation instead of legislation. And they’re doing itjust as we’re celebrating the third anniversary of the signing of the civil unions bill into law on April 26. The second story involvesthe com- ments of Pennsylvania Republican Senator Rick Santorum, third in the Republican lead- Just in case you thought we have arrived Mat witt’s d Homophobia, Continued ership line in the Senate. In an interview with the Associated Press, transcripts of the relevant parts of which were circulated in the Internet, Santorum outlined his view of homosexuality as on a par with bigamy, polygamy, incest, and adultery. He suggest- ed that if the Supreme Court overturned Texas’s same-sex sodomy law in a finding supporting a right to privacy for consensual sexual acts within one’s home, then those “deviant” acts are what will result. According to Santorum, the state should have the right to regulate (read “criminal- . ize”) any sexual activity that is not occur- ring within a heterosexual marriage created to beget children. His comments were carefully hedged with statements insisting that he has “no problem with homosexuality. I have a problem with homosexual acts.” All the usual suspects among the glbtq rights organizations have sent out emails blasting Sen. Santorum’s bigoted and offensive remarks and calling for him to apologize or resign from his leadership posts. Among the Democratic candidates for president, Sen. Bob Kerry was first off themark with a one-paragraph statement castigating the White House for its support for Santorum. . Second across the line was our own former Governor Howard Dean, who seems to have recognized the value of his glbtq constituency only since leaving the govemorship. He actually issued two responses, a day apart, the first of which cited the anniversary of his signing the civil union law on April 26. I What is more interesting to media- watchers is that the press release was dis- tributed by Witeck-Combs Communications, an out gay public relations firm. , Dean said, “That a leader of the Republican Party would make such insensi- tive and divisive comments — comments that are derogatory and meant to hann an entire group of Americans, their friends and their families — is not only outrageous, but deeply offensive. “The silence with which President Bush and the Republican Party leadership have greeted Senator Santorum’s remarks is deafening. It is the same silence that greeted Senator Lott’s offensive remarks in December. It is a silence that implicitly con- dones a policy of domestic divisiveness, a policy that seeks to divide Americans again and again on the basis of race, gender, class, and sexual orientation. “It is a policy that must end, and it is a policy that will end with a Dean Presidency. And in the second release, he said, “Sen. Santorum has refused to apologize for his repugnant remarks, calling his comments ‘a legitimate public policy discussion.’ Gay- bashing is not a legitimate public policy dis- cussion; it is immoral.” We cannot rest, friends. Bigots are everywhere and in Bush’s America we’re criminals in too many places. Write letters, march, make your voice heard and your presence known in your town, state, and nation in whatever way works best for you. Silence will not help. A Quiet, Powerful Impact We note with sadness the sudden death late last month of Kathleen Layman, age 48, of Richmond, Vermont. Kathleen lived on the western end of town, where she and her partner Annie Condon built an indoor pool and spa. Kathleen had coached UVM’s divers, then taught Richmond’s children to swim, coached the Blue Dolphins swim team, ran’ aquatic fitness classes for adults, and taught adaptive aquatics programs for disabled youths. Not known as an activist on gay and lesbian issues, she worked with the town’s children and made a quiet and pow- erful impact as a positive, trustworthy role model for athletic achievement, a level of involvement that is as important as march- ing in demonstrations. Parents whose chil- dren were on the swim team praised her ability to build confidence in her young competitors. * . Kathleen was also a talented land- scape photographer. She continued to help others after her death through the arrangements she had made for organ donation. Kathleen is survived by her part- ner, Annie, and their three children. The family asked that anyone wishing to make a memorial contribution contact the American Civil Liberties Union (phone: 212-549- 2585). _ We did not know her, but we wish we did. We drove past the sign for her spa and fitness center many times, thinking we should go, and never did. And now we can’t. Carpe diem, seize the day. Every day tell those you love that you love them. Reach out to new people in our communities and welcome them. Speak your truth how ever you can. Love life and help kids do their best — that’s what Kathleen did. Euan Bear George W. Bush. That's not how we resolve conflict in this school. YOU‘VE FAILED DIPLOMACY _.J -- Kindergarden I Everything I need to know I teamed in Kindergarden He. says Diplomacy Failed ‘ We Say He Fai led Qiglomugy i..\.«1':uH mo A055