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As a church-going psy- chologist, it’s all there for me: sex, religion, scientific controversy, the politics of academia, slick market- ing triumphs, and public-relations nightmares. Juicy! But it’s notjust a multimedia blood sport, what with ex-gays and ex-ex-gays duk- ing it out on talk shows. As you read this, there are real people, probably in some church base- ment, who are truly suffering as they struggle with the conflict between their homosexual lust and deeply held religious convictions. Though conversion ther- apy has been around for a while, it’s been far more visible in the past few years. In 1998, John and Anne Paulk, a respectable-looking married couple, appeared on the cover of Newsweek. Their claim? They’d each conquered their homosexuality; why, John had even been a drag queen! The story was not only sensational, but also well funded and cunningly pack- aged by a coalition of conservative Christian organizations, who con- tinue to pursue the campaign. The ensuing (and ongo- ing) debate boiled down to the notion of choice: could a motivat- ed individual replace homosexual desire with heterosexual? How might it be done? If ‘conversion’ fails, does that mean it was impos- sible? Or, is same-sex attraction like an addiction that the sick homosexual refused to face and correct? In the wake of these events, a special issue of The Journal of Gay and Lesbian Psychotherapy was published as this stand-alone volume. I can’t recommend this book. It’s not exactly a page-tum- er, and that’s puzzling, given the topic. As can be the case with the editor’s approach (get a diverse ' group of authors to address the same topic), the results are uneven. Many chapters were writ- ten in the worst sort of sloppy aca- demic slang, with equal measures of jargon and imprecision (there is such a thing as good scientific writing, and a multi-author work like this can be well written; itjust takes more coordination). _ The best chapter (by far) is an excerpt from Martin ' Duberman’s excellent 1991 book Cures, A Gay Man 3' Odyssey, an account of his years of trying to overcome his homosexuality through psychotherapy. A similar, and poignant (but less artful) con- tribution‘ is from Richard‘ Isay, MD, who was one of the first gay psychoanalysts (which means ther- apy-ihjthe Freudian style: four to six sessions a week. Imaginel). Being somewhat familiar with the major figures of this story, I was intrigued by Paul Moor’s therapy recollections because his psychia- trist was Irving Bieber, who authored an influential book on the allegedsickness of homosexuality. Though now largely dis- credited, Bieber’s work is still touted by the ex-gay crowd. If you recognize the name, then you’ll probably get a kick out of Moor’s sad, somewhat weird tale. But I wonder how many readers would really be that interested in these . three rather similar stories about a time (19605 and ’70s) and a place (New York City, mostly) that has ‘ passed. Instead, I’d suggest Duberman’s fine book — the whole thing — which is also a skilled piece of first-person social history (befitting an admired historian). Most of the other chap- ters are far less well written; their points can be readily summarized. Conversion therapy is currently the exclusive purview of conserva- tive Christianity. To the degree it draws on research, it does so selectively and deceptively. It probably causes far more harm than good. Its practitioners may fail to warn their patients ofthe potential risks (deeper psychologi- cal distress — suicidal impulses, clinical depression, or increased anxiety) and the dearth of evi- dence that real change is possible. After decades of highly political wrangling, nearly all professional organizations have explicitly dis- avowed conversion therapy. Unfortunately, these points are made and repeated over and over. The lack of communication between the different authors (and the lack of editorial involvement) is impossible to miss and a little maddening. End of story? Not quite. The current ethical quandary (dis- cussed in a couple of the book’s chapters) is this: do patients have a right to receive conversion therapy — warts and all — and, if not, is that choice for therapists to make? Isn’t that really a matter of the therapist’s values trumping those of the patients? Is this not a failure to recognize and respect religious teaching? Here, conv.ersion-thera- py proponents are turning our own arguments back on us: it’s all about choice, inclusion, patient-' empowerment, all that good stuff. What are pro-gay therapists afraid I of‘? There’s more. In a ca-nny adjustment to reality, the ex-gay crowd seems to now acknowledge the fact that true conversion is unlikely, probably impossible. John Paulk didn’t help matters when, alter the Newsweek cover, he - oops! — was spotted buying drinks for other single (well, mar- ried, but the wives wereh’t.. around) men in a Washington DC gay bar (and didn’t lose his job with Focus on the Family. What, one wonders, would he have to do to get canned: Judy?,Liza? Both at once?) A V _ So now the ex-gay crowd puts it like this. You aren’t heterosexual because you lose homosexual desire. No, you’re heterosexual because that’s how God made you and wants you (and everybody) to be. If you have gay lust, it may be your cross to bear. But it doesn’t make you gay_ unless you let it. So don’t. And, oh yes, no amount of therapy, prayer, or both is likely to ever "replace it with raw, straight desire, so, at best, you’re probably going to become asexual, 'really_. ' I ’ This somewhat tortured line of thought is (rather indirect- ly) presented in Lee Beckstead’s chapter on Mormons. Not to pick on him, but this was taken” from his (otherwise unpublished) mas- ter’s thesis, and it shows. ‘ Extensive quotations from his research subjects, though, are quite thought provoking and often articulate, in stark contrast to his I- just-got-to-graduate-school prose (though it’s not that much worse, really, than most of the book, much of which is quite slap-dash). Beckstead says conversion therapy worked for him. And his writings gotten a bit better. During the civil-unions backlash, I traced some out-of- state agitators back to the academ- ic front men for the religious right (so much of what’s covered in this book was pretty familiar). These people are smart (co-opting the language of inclusiveness is pretty sneaky, and coaching the would-be ex-gays to say the right words). They’re quietlybuilding a sort of parallel establishment. They’re organizing symposia at main- stream academic conferences (again, justified by the “academic . freedom” thing); they’re writing in their own journals. If you’re inter- ested in the topic I’d suggest some web surfing (you’ll be. astounded at the amount of material out there). What you’ll find is also ' more current, _as the issues contin- ue to evolve. This story is far from over. V Rudiger is a social psychol- ogist living in Burlington.