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Hey Mr. Frank,
I've been dating this woman for almo _ ’ .
along great except she is really in the closet. ‘l’ ,_ ays» been totai-  . 
ly out, and i feel like a complete hypocrite wher_i__l don’t.say anything
when she introduces me to people as her friend. . She never wantsto do any}-’ ’

 

   
  

 

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