A ___xI-TL.” .- \ o$7 ¥ o$7 -\-ego 30$? ego '§ ego ‘ ego \ “For the first few years of our relationship, my partner and I found that the holidays were a time that necessitated separa- tion. Both families eagerly clam- bered to have their respective offspring at home fora week of standard holiday fare. While nei- ther family was particularly unwelcoming of “the gay part- ner,” the idea of being dragged around in front of elderly rela- tives who just didn’t understand who we were or why we were there, and regularly asked if we were college room-mates or had boyfriends, was enough to send us off as singles to holiday fests in different states. With Jenn spending most of her time at var- ious churches around Atlanta and I forever smoking cigarettes on my parents’ deck in arctic Pennsylvania, arguing with my father about whether or not Christmas was pagan, we found our holidays just lacked a certain something. “After a couple of seasons of this, we decided it just wasn’t for us. We wanted to be together dur- ing the holidays. And regular family holiday trap- pings, anything that emphasized the holi- days were best cele- brated as mom, dad, brother and sister around the fire, were just not for us. Whetheurl/the event you’re planning is a civil celebration for 300, or dinner for 6...call Sarah Moran at Cloud 9 Caterers: Phone (802) 65 5-7370 Fax (802) 655—7765 Email salncloud9@aOl.C0m “So the first year we stayed home, We had about $5 for Christmas presents, so . we wrapped everything to make it more festive—used book and bookmark received their own fes- tive holiday wrappings. We had a lovely fake tree we bought at Target with about five ornaments on it. We were in Dallas, so a fake tree was definitely the norm; buy- ing a real one would have required a second job. But orna- ments were hard to come by, and costly. So we decorated just the portion we could see from the sofa. “But in years since, things have improved tremendously. I think the Christmas we ran off to Germany finally broke the ties and incessant requests for us to “come home” for the holidays. In our minds, we are home.”’ —Carrie Rampp and Jenn Ponder “One cannot think well, love well, sleep well, if one has not dined well.” For over 10 years, Cloud 9 Caterers has been bringing creative, customized menus to the table. Cloud 9 boasts an extensive variety of signature menu items that take advantage of produce unique to Vermont. We also feature lavis/7 custom cakes and desserts created by our Pastry Chef,‘ Patty Berringer. gjgéj “P/0; CLOUD 9 CATERERS VERMONT December 2000 1 Out in the Mountains |15_ 1 , , , 'i"Wo.mefl:-'5 Circle of the ~ Sp‘ifit Ring . A talisman of the strength &, wisdom of the feminine in sterling silver & 14K, 5 , by Karen Klinefelter. floédayd ,